This is my reaction to everyone telling everyone else to stay at home. I assume you must be very comfortable financially and clueless with what a “non essential worker” and/or small business owner is going through right now. They have bigger fears than Covid 19.
Unless someone owns a business or knows someone closely that owns one they will never get it. They cannot realize that owning a business is not just part of your life, IT IS YOUR LIFE! Many small business owners have it like this:
No paid vacations, no health insurance, no sick days paid, no severance pay, no unemployment insurance, no IRA, no income if you don’t work-period! But you have a reputation, clients, debt, and plenty of bills without a safety net to fall back on. Typically a small business owner wakes up and gives it all they have until they lay down, every day, year after year. If they have employees they worry about them constantly and in many cases treat them as family. Their everyday routine and income has been taken from them since the “slow the spread” has began.
As a small business owner (A-1 Cleaning Service, LLC) we were declared “essential” and thankfully our business was never shut down. Our service falls under “sanitation” was therefore deemed necessary from the beginning of the shutdown/lockdown.
Looking back to the start of this crisis beginning in mid March I know that we were all scared. However since our crew cleans mainly “essential services” (banks, auto shops, medical facilities) we were able to keep cleaning. We had to immediately reconfigure our office space so that every administrative employee could have their own room-thankfully a task we were able to achieve easily. We decided for that first 2 weeks we would postpone all day work; no maids services, window washing, carpet cleaning, vacancy cleaning. Our day workers day to day lives came to an abrupt STOP. Our nighttime workers were all grateful to be able to work. I am sure they were scared and felt as though they were risking their lives but they needed and wanted to work.
Usually when people don’t work they don’t get paid. With no day work on the calendar we thought day workers would need to be laid off? For how long? But wait, what’s this? The government passes CARE ACT that incudes a (PPP) paycheck protection program, and another EIDLE economic injury disaster loan advance. We applied day 1.
William and I could hardly believe it but on Tuesday morning of April 21st we received a deposit from the US Treasury for 10,000; the first part of the government assistant to small businesses, EIDL. The 2nd round for the paycheck protection program opened today (April 27th) and so we will wait to see any more aid comes from that.
The weekend before the slow the spread 2 weeks was imposed on our country I had 2 people in my immediate family get admitted to the hospital-my mother, and my daughter. At first we could see our 21 yr old daughter but after 4 days in the ER St. Joe’s hospital (and the entire nation) went on lockdown. Back in Chicago my mother ended up in an ER the same weekend. My mother was in the ICU and septic, and nobody from our family could visit her. This was a living nightmare for our family for nearly a month with my mom. Finally after 4 weeks of hospital and rehab my mother was released and is doing great, and our daughter has recovered also.
Having a person you love in the hospital and not being able to see them when they need you the most is agonizing and infuriating. I do not know the solution for this, but it is something you should all be considering because I am sure that we do not want to see our hospitals say NO VISITORS forever.
The thing is our cleaning business has never stopped working. As far as Covid goes we believe at least one of our crew members may have had it back in December, but as of now we do not know for sure. What we do know is that we have continued working through this “pandemic” and have all survived. Not one of our 38 employees have been diagnosed Covid as of today and we continue to pray that they do not. My husband and I were in and out of the ER room back in Humboldt county’s height of Covid cases, which I believe was 28 at most? When we were hanging out in the ER we had resolved that we just might get Covid, but were were willing to take that risk to be with our daughter. We made sure to quarantine ourselves and saw no one for those first 3 weeks after that. We had no masks at the time and neither did the staff in the ER wear them.
I hope you can see from my journey so far why I am not afraid of Covid and I totally understand why people are protesting. I hope I have made my point well enough for you to consider what exactly has been asked of the small business owner that has been deemed “non essential?”
How do you like some of those drunk on power governors telling Americans in Michigan and other states what “essentials” you may and may not purchase? I hope that nonsense has ended?
For the last 2 weeks here in Humboldt county we have had several days in a row with no new cases. And yet I still see people getting so AGRO about staying at home? We have had 52 cases in total and yet flights come in from LA and SAN FRAN all the time so when will it really stop? How long will the fear go on? Does anyone think we will ever be sterile enough?
A-1 was just received a a new commercial that was created for us by a media company that will be played soon on the radio. The original ending said something about “so do your part and stay at home!” We did not like that and had it removed. If I am afraid, I will stay home, but I will not ask you to stay home because I cannot imagine demanding others do anything, much less demand they lose their businesses because I am afraid?!
Businesses and “non essential workers” (I despise those words) on lockdown in America after 5 weeks over Covid 19 fears and deaths is literally causing people to descend into poverty. Asking people to stay safe at home because you are afraid and comfortable while they wait, and wait, and wait, because they cannot work is asking too much.
2014 NPR interview discussing government power quarantining people against their will.
We built a tiny house for my mom and her bed got moved in on February 24th 2018. She has been warm, dry, and very happy in her new home ever since! This past year our family, friends, community, and even a few strangers all took part in building a tiny house for my mom!
Timeline and bullet points.
When I first started talking about building a tiny house my cousin Tim was all about helping out. His wife was on board too, so that was a real good solid start. I knew they would make the trip to Cali and help me put some kind of shack together, but I had no idea how instrumental they would be in this project? Believe me they didn’t either! But we were going for it and excited to take on the adventure. Once I told my sister we had them on board she knew it was getting real too. We had a lot of time to try and gather donations, so that’s what we focused on from the start.
Tim and I first started talking very seriously about the tiny house at our family reunion in thesummer of 2016. My mother grew up with 12 siblings and most of them wanted to help her somehow. From siblings, to cousins, to 2nd cousins, to distant cousins. All the buzz at the reunion gave our generous Bottger (and extended) family lots of time to gather interest and donations.
Christmas 2016 We started a go fund me campaign and the Bottger family raised $500. Even 2 ex-wives (of my mom’s brothers) donated for her tiny house because they love my mom!
April of 2017 We sold off the old RV and then had $4ooo to cash flow the house project. We weren’t sure if we would use the 4k for the trailer or finance it? We could have purchased a smaller one outright, but in the end we decided to finance it to give us some spending money, and get a larger trailer. The one we bought is actually an auto transport trailer that can hold 10klbs. It is not a trailer that was made specifically for a tiny house, but it works just fine for one. We bought it from Dennis at RMI in Eureka Ca. We were told it would take 6-8 weeks, it took 6.
May-July Once the trailer arrived our friend Leonard picked it up and delivered it to our property.
I got a phone call one day from my cousin Tim because he had made a phone call (to APEX) and scored 4 triple paned windows for FREE! Really nice windows!
Sometime in the spring we discovered Ana White’s tiny house “the wild rose” and Tim started to work that model into our tiny house more and more with a little tweak here and there for flair. Amy encouraged me to build the dual level table Ana White designed to be a coffee/dining room table. It’s in mom’s house today in front of her 2 long narrow windows.
Amy called to let me know she had scored a FREE fridge/freezer (bottom freezer even!) and a FREE stove/oven from A-1 appliances in Minnesota. Cute, little, tiny ones! I scored an antique Jotul wood stove for $100 from facebook marketplace. My uncle donated a skylight that we temporarily put in the roof of the tiny, some older pictures show it installed. Even though we ultimately took it out, and didn’t use the wood stove we’d scored, at this point it seemed like the tiny house would come together with donations alone!
My cousin Tim worked (and worked and worked) the plans for the tiny house into his CAD program to ensure we didn’t go over weight. He is an engineer that helps people make their dreams come true all the time with his business Genesis TEK. It was great to have his expertise help and to be able to see the model of what the tiny would look like in 3d. There was a lot of talk about “brackets” to extend the width of the living space, but this was not an easy find! It was a nail biter up to the very end/beginning of
the build. These brackets are the unseen hardware that can allow you to
build out to the end of the wheel wells, aka wider living space. Some trailers floors already go that far, but it was looking like I would have to travel to Oregon to get one. If you’ve never been to the REAL northern CA (5 hrs N San Fran) then you cannot understand what “behind the redwood curtain” means. Some things are not worth traveling for, I decided early on, as tempting as the home depot 1.5 hrs away was, I would look for my needs right in Humboldt. I’m perfectly pleased with our trailer, and cannot thank the people at North Coast Fabricators for getting our brackets done in 1 day!
Tim, my sister and I were in talks with our family about when we could all be out here at the same time. Beginning of August 2017 it would be.
I blogged about the first few days working on the house, but ever since we got started, taking pictures and building was about all I have had time for. I knew I could finish blogging once the house was complete, especially if we took many pictures, which we did.
August-Our family arrived on the 2nd week of August and we began the build. Tiny house: Day 1
We threw a fundraiser pizza party for the tiny house while my family was here and raised $350. My sister, mom, and I decided to give the money to our cousins for the cost of renting and hauling the U-haul trailer full of donated appliances and windows. Too bad their engine blew up on Amy and the kids on the way back to Minnesota while Tim was still
here working on the tiny house. I still feel bad about that one! They REALLY do love their aunt Jill!
In the middle of this project we had some special guests from half way around the world come in support of my cousin, my mother, and really our entire family. A man from China that does a lot of business with my cousin Tim happened to be taking a trip with his family around the states. The two had talked about meeting (for the first time) during this trip somewhere in weeks prior. He was unable to make it to our fundraiser the night before, but we had our own little party the next day, and it was so great! The kids were fascinated watching how we make our pizza, and they loved eating it. That day in my home was so special and I will never forget that sweet family and how they blessed us so generously!
My cousin Tim stayed long and worked hard even after the rest of the family had returned home. He was here almost a full month. He had wanted to make sure we had the windows installed, the roof done, the exterior walls up, and that the house was wrapped. He really had high expectations! We did all that and felt good at what we were able to accomplish. Of coarse there were times we wanted things to be moving faster, but early on we decided we would not be rushing or stressing unnecessarily. We stayed on point to enjoy the project and the process, and to roll with the changes.
September-October-November Afterthe whole family left William and I were left to finish up the fully framed, roofed, and weather wrapped shell of a house thinking it would be done fairly quickly? Ha, ha. Maybe it would be for 2 people who didn’t have anything else to do, but that is not us! We decided to hire our good friend who is super hard working, broadly skilled, righteous, professional builder. He was there for us every.single.time. whenever we needed him. And boy did we need him!
When Matt Mullaney would show up on site, everything was well in our world again. We didn’t really know how to build a house, c’mon! Matt was consulting with us all the way from day 1 of the build. But even closer to the end he and his right arm man (& bro in law) Kristian helped to
batten down the house. They ran all the electrical and plumbing, put up the interior walls and ceiling, exterior walls, and finished up bunches of odds & ends. They basically killed it night and day, rain or shine, dry or super muddy! Matt hooked up the on-demand hot water heater. On one of his earlier trips up Matt advised me on what types of jacks I ought get. So before he cut us loose on the house for good he made sure we were secured with the jacks and brakes, stabilizing it. Matt mixed up some cement and put it inside the tiny house in the bathroom where the shower was about to go in. I was like, “um, what are you doing?” He explained to me how it helped support the shower and keep it from sagging into the floor, both getting ruined over time. I had no idea? Matt was looking out for us, and taking care of business in ways we couldn’t even see, like a good contractor should. I seriously don’t even like to imagine what this mammoth project would have been like without him!
Throughout the build there were lots of mini projects and helping hands to get them all done. So many of our friends were interested and excited to help us out. We are so thankful every person who help support this project and want to also give a shout out to all of our prayer warrior friends-you know who you are!
I didn’t really want to be dependent on my husband to help me with this project. (HAHAHA!) I knew I would never truly be alone in the whole thing, but there was a time (less than a year ago from this day) that I hadn’t had much of a clue as to how it would all come together or how long I could really get by without his help? But he always knew I would be completely dependant on him! Initially we were sure we were doing the right thing but sometimes we were just in way over our heads! My husband mustered through the punch list from start to finish on every detail of this labor of love. Sometimes we worked together, sometimes we worked alone. We pushed ourselves to the limit with time and money to finish this as soon as we could.
While my sister was here she did all the hard work of putting together the tiny house expenses into an excel sheet. We only have things logged up until September, but it shows all the donations we got, and most of the biggest expenses. Receipts are still rolling in, bills are still getting paid. Dust is still settling over the Hardwick homestead, but I would say we are looking at somewhere between $22-25k for this build. Some money was cash flowed, some was borrowed, some was donated. I would guesstimate that William and I owe $12k for the build. Much of the labor was free, BOTTGER family style. I estimate we paid anywhere from $7-10k in labor and materials on top of the original receipts that have been logged. I will know better after this month has passed.
March 12th, 2018 We moved my mom’s bed in this past Sunday, February 24th 2018. Before this week, I had been restless. Really, restless. From the day we put a gigantic tarp over my mom’s 5th wheel to shield it from the rain. It’s obvious from these photos why I was so determined to build something better for her. She clearly has a great spot.
This dream of building a tiny house for my mom turned into something much bigger than I could have ever imagined! I don’t mean the beautiful tiny house alone, although it does still take my breath away because it’s just so cute! Our faithful friend Joe Kent would always say “it’s so much more than a project” and he is right. With this tiny house build we saw outrageous generosity from strangers, friends, and family…lots of volunteers…moral support…we welcomed special guests from China…there was an epic backpacking trip… a spa party…we crashed an Aunt & Uncle’s 45 yr wedding anniversary dinner with writing in the sand they could see from moonstone grill…we had beach dinners…my sister’s flight from San Fran was cancelled but my husband was already going to a CUBS/GIANTS game (GO CUBS!) so she got to crash that…our home was stuffed with family…from North Carolina, Minnesota, Chicago, Idaho, San Diego…we had crazy pizza concoctions…we had a mini West Coast Bottger family reunion….and build a tiny house inspired by an amish style barn raising… all in honor of our mom! William Hardwick and I are once again in total amazement and do wish to give God all the glory! Believe me, a little faith went a long way on this dream!
So you want to build a tiny house, where should you begin? Hire a contractor. In our situation the expert help we got was clutch. And also having plenty of time. If you have unlimited money, that makes a difference for sure, but in any case-plan well. There are many steps in building a tiny house, (just as many as a regular house) but if you are building on a trailer then the first step would be researching the exact right one. Either way you will want to know these things early on.
Once your house is built you will need a spot for it. This may take some time to find all the things you are looking for.
How big do you want your tiny house?
How much will it cost to complete it?
Will you be off grid or need hookups for electricity, water, toilet? In our case my mom had an RV in place before so all the hookups had been put in by my husband years before. Hooking up a septic system is no small task and I’m sure that’s why so many opt for a composting toilet. Electricity and water can be pricey too if you have a long run to a power/water source.
Get plans, if you can with a materials list. If they are custom plans then you (or someone) ought to use a computer program (in my case, my cousin) to help keep track of the overall layout and weight of materials.
Ask for help building. Ask for donations of cash and materials. Look for deals and free materials on CL and facebook marketplaces. It’s not begging to give people an opportunity to give. In our case strangers donated high end windows and appliances! People love a good cause, and lots of people have a soft spot for seniors.
I suggest budgeting and estimating the costs for the work you know you will need to hire done, and be ready to add to it. When I first started thinking about building a (much smaller) space for my mom, I didn’t have any real plans outside of purchasing a trailer and building on it myself however long it took me. But fortunately for me plenty of people came alongside to help us finish it. Thank you all so much!
Its been a whole year since my sister and I started a go fund me page for our mom’s tiny house. We didn’t really know where to start, so that seemed like a good idea at the time. When some of our family members donated (right before Christmas!) it was the confirmation and boost we needed to know we were moving in the right direction, and that we would not be alone.
Today we are very close to getting it done! The outside is completely buttoned up, and the inside walls and ceiling on the inside are up.
I wanted to share where we are on the build and give an update on expenses. My husband and I had a lot of decisions about things to do with the house since it would be on our property. We also knew the expenses would soon start becoming our own once the money from moms RV sale ran out. Today the expenses that are left to be paid are the $5k for the trailer, and another $7K for the last couple months supplies. At this point I would guesstimate that the tiny house has ended up costing about $20K.
We hired our good friend (and most excellent contractor) Matt Mullaney to help us complete the tiny house properly. We had many conversations about the skylight that still had to be flashed and ultimately decided to take it out. The labor to flash it was going to be a bit more than to just take it out, and we really didn’t want to have any problems with it down the road. We also decided to not use the beautiful wood stove that we just bought for the house. It has a small crack that needs welding, the glass door is broken, and it is really much too big of a stove for that tiny space. Those 2 decisions were kind of disappointing, but in the end the tiny house going to be a very energy efficient, easy to maintain living space for a senior citizen.
What’s left to do:
Casing and trim around the windows and walls
Electrical outlet boxes installed
Sink/countertop purchase and install
Bathroom door hang
Run a gas line
The original house I had in my mind and the actual tiny house are not even close! Here is the actual magazine cover and article that inspired me over a year ago.
Wow, what a summer! Our family came through is such big ways to get mom’s tiny house here, and we are still pushing on. We are super close to putting the final touches on and getting her moved in! At this time we are in need of expertise help and we have stretched our resources to the limit.
From the beginning there has always been a wave of support from family, friends, even strangers! Thank you all for your support.
This day we started from scratch with the trailer. William used the bobcat to level the trailer ground as best he could. Getting the trailer level was pretty time consuming, and another thing we were hoping to have done before everyone came, but it just could not happen. It was this day we knew we needed to purchase and install some jacks to help make the trailer even more stable. We spent $200 and got 6 jacks a couple weeks later. The back end of the trailer is about 2-3′ off the ground, the front only about 1′. Thankfully the smaller jacks came in a pair for about the same as the larger jacks~$45
That night the family enjoyed company with one another. It was great to have dinner at the old Samoa Cookhouse with relatives in from all over. My uncle Brian and wife Renete (San Diego) their son Brian jr (North Carolina) daughter Simone and son Kane (Eureka) my auntie Joyce (Chicago) uncle Teddy (Chicago) uncle Brett (Chicago) uncle Darrell and wife Donna (Idaho) my cousin Tim and daughters Caitlin & Kira (Minnesota)!
While it was a great feast, we were anticipating the arrival of Tim’s wife and son and my sister-who was supposed to fly all the way into Humboldt county but got held up in San Fran. As fate and divine intervention would have it, my husband was in town to see the Cubbies play the Giants, (yes he ditched us all and our tiny house project for the CUBS!) and he was going to be driving Tim’s wife & son up the next day anyway. So it all worked out, my sister actually ended up having a blast of coarse. She got to go down to the “Cruz” visit with William’s brothers Matt & Paul, and cousin Perry, and even got to check out the boardwalk a little too. The next day Amy and Devon would fly into San Fran, and they would altogether do the 5 hour drive north into the redwood curtain.
On day two, the 7th of August, the largest group of my family arrived. My uncle Teddy traveled with a 39′ all the way to my front door! In it he brought another uncle, Brett, and my auntie Joyce.
My cousin Timmy who has been helping me from Day 1, had planned his whole family’s vacation around this project. He hitched up the Uhaul, and settled in for a long journey with his 2 daughters from Minnesota, hauling the trailer full of goods. They planned and did meet up with the RV gang along the way, arriving at the same time. Tim’s wife Amy and their son flew out later, and you’ll see that arrival in another blog.
They did a rough and tough detour through the beautiful mountains of hwy 36. By the time they got here, everybody’s nerves were shot! Good thing we had each other and the peaceful mountain to forget about all that. When they arrived that day, my uncle Brian and his wife Renete of 50 yrs were already up on the hill, along with my cousin Simone and her son. Brian jr, my cousin Gen, and her husband came out in support later too. It was a non stop family fun (and work) time, till the last minute!
The first thing that happened was my uncle Darrell and his wife of 45 years showed up. My uncle could barely sit still the entire time he was here! He got to work up here and never stopped. He even worked on his anniversary! His wife and he built themselves a beautiful mountain cabin in Idaho.
The costs are not final yet, but I wanted to share what my beautiful sister so carefully put together. We estimate at this point the tiny house to have cost about 12k so far. There are just a few materials left to purchase. I would say another 2-3k for the walls, insulation, ceiling, final floor covering. Not bad for having the house wrapped, roofed, windows, and all the exterior walls. The house will be ready for winter in just a few more hours of labor. We need to get a shower enclosure asap so we can put the sliding glass door in.
It’s hard to believe it’s been only 21 days since my family first arrived and began building a tiny house for my mom. The last 3 weeks have been a whirlwind, almost like a dream. They were filled with laughter, blood, sweat, tears, memories, fun, frustration, hope and love. Since they have all gone home I am constantly sure that I haven’t thanked each person enough for all they sacrificed.
There is still plenty to be done with the house, but my family gave us the most incredible start!
I want to say thank you to all my family, friends, and community that helped support this labor of love-thank you, thank you, thank you!
So all of a sudden the countdown has gotten so close! My cousin Timmy jr. (& his wife Amy) have been working tirelessly on this project, maybe even more than me!
This time last year (July 2016) I was back in the Midwest for a family reunion in July. That was the place I told everyone I was going to build my mom a tiny house, and wondered if any of my family would be interested? Many of my aunts and uncles had been out before, and I just knew that they needed a good excuse to come on out and have something to do. They have answered the call! Have I mentioned lately how awesome my family is? They really are!
Of coarse my sister was on board immediately, and then my cousin Timmy really got the ball rolling when he shared moms story with his local (Minnesota) window company, Apex, and generous Joe Trombley approved and gave him 4 top of the line, brand new windows. It was one simple phone call, but what he was able to get his hands on was confirmation to all of us hopefuls to begin moving forward. I didn’t have everything, but I had alot of hope that I would see God’s goodness through my family, friends, and community, and we really are!
So far we have only spent 5k on a new 7×24 trailer, purchased from Dennis at RMI in Eureka. What we have already in possession is the trailer, the spot with electricity, water, plumbing ready to go, 4 awesome windows, 1 sliding glass door, 2×4 skylight, toilet, bathroom door, ceiling fan, some roofing, some lumber, some hardware. My cousin’s wife Amy scored us a new fridge, and stove w/oven from their local A-1 appliance store in Minnesota. Our trailer size we were renting for the windows grows by the day with the loot! I am so proud that our family ancestry goes as far back as the 1700’s in Minnesota because those are some fine people over, right??
Most recently my cousin Timmy has given me a full plan for the tiny house-materials, and cut list too! He has requested that I get the floor insulated and ready before he arrives with the caravan of family on August 7th so that we can begin framing right away. So, this week, I will be picking up materials for that project, and I will begin building the insulated floor of the trailer. All by myself, unless anyone wants to come help? Oh wait, mom says she will be helping too, schlepping water.